“A spec is a spec, there is nothing anyone can do about it” NK gushed as she tried on her pretty black “ashewo dress”. We both laughed as she got ready for the dinner party she was going to. “See ehn, a fine girl is a fine girl, forget this my ashewo dress” she continued as she ran even later than she had planned. However, NK was right. A woman’s beauty was beyond her wardrobe, makeup bag, and where she had curves. Don’t get me wrong, those things add to a woman’s beauty, but that is exactly what they are; additions, they are not the main thing. What are the main things you may wonder? Fine Girl NK spilled all the sauce in before her ride to the dinner venue arrived.
According to her, being beautiful is actually being be-YOU-tiful, and being be-YOU-tiful is what makes a woman a spec. I was still screaming at NK’s lines when she burst my brains even further with her recipe to being a spec. Apparently, Fine Girl NK took SPEC as an acronym that held the secrets to radiating the real beauty of a woman. These included:
Sense: “A woman with sense hits different” NK continued. And I agree with her. There is something about that woman who has a good head on her shoulders, she is always extra beautiful to behold, especially when she is in her element. So, NK and I agreed that the first point of beauty in a woman was her mind, or “sense” as NK insists.
Passion: Watching a woman pursue her dreams is just about the most beautiful way to experience a woman. It is a whole new level of sexy. Her resilience and sense of appreciation for all life has to offer are both irresistible and contagious. Such a woman is one who others will always admire.
Empathy: NK’s third commandment to being a SPEC is to overflow with EMPATHY. A woman who can understand the pains of others, give and receive love will never cease to be attractive. You can’t help but love her through and through because she will endear herself by making you feel seen, heard, and understood.
Confidence: A woman who does not need other women’s reassurance to help her feel this pride in herself is infinitely more appealing than a woman who is not! NO CAPS. Her energy is enough to jack up the people around her to begin to believe in themselves as well, and that is what a woman is, a nurturer of everything good!
By the time NK’s cab arrived, I was already excited about spilling the real makeup of every be-YOU-tiful woman out there with you! What are backup buddies for? Lol.
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Stay be-YOU-tiful Queen!
